Song of The Day: Something Big by Shawn Mendes
(AKA my new obsession) [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mytLRy32Viw]
It’s funny how a conversation with a
total stranger can completely change your outlook on your whole entire day.
Every Monday and Wednesday after my Creative Writing class, I go to Turner to
eat lunch and sit in there for a few hours because my next class isn’t until
2:30PM. As usual, this place is completely crowded. It’s one of the nicer
places on campus to eat, and the food is to die for. After walking in the cold,
pouring rain, I reach my destination. I walk into Turner, and there is
literally nowhere to sit and the lines are outrageous. I don’t know why, but
everything seemed so much more crowded today. I began looking for any familiar
face and a place to sit. The way Turner is set up is that there are tables and
there are “bar-like” seats. I saw an open seat between these two girls. Me,
being the awkward individual I am, asked nicely if anyone was sitting there,
and one of the girls said no and smiled. I was so glad because I wouldn’t have
to look any further and the seat was next to the crepe place.
I come back with my food and eat.
Today had already been stressful because I was dealing with Thanksgiving break
troubles and assignments for classes that day, plus it is Monday…and raining.
Once part of my struggles were alleviated, I was smiling and a little relieved.
Out of nowhere, the girl sitting to my left told me that she liked my water
bottle. It’s a cute, blue bottle with multicolored anchors and ropes. I
responded by saying thank you, and she told me that I seem like a joyful person. That made me so happy
because that is one of my favorite things to hear. I try my best to be
optimistic and happy all the time. I was a little surprised that she noticed
because I hadn’t said or done anything to her but smile. Anyone who knows me
knows that I hate making direct eye contact with people and I begin to fidget
with my hands or drink water if I’m in an awkward situation. I also touch my
face a lot. I can’t help it. She starts to have a conversation with me, and I
was completely nervous because I thought our conversation would end with me
saying thank you for her compliment. I learned that her name is Rachel, and she
is a senior here. She also is in the same major that I am in. After we finished
talking about school related things, she says, “this is a weird question, but
do you need prayer for anything?” I was shocked because I was not expecting her
to ask that. Before I even noticed, I smiled and said yes. She asked me what I
needed prayer for, and I said my biology grade. Biology has been my most
difficult class this semester, and I have been extremely stressed about it. She
continued and asked if there was anything else I needed prayer for, and without
even thinking, I said I needed prayer for travelling safety over Thanksgiving
break. Right there in Turner, she prayed with me. In the middle of hundreds of
people, she took a little moment out of her schedule and prayed with me. She wasn’t ashamed or embarrassed;
she just did it. To be honest, for the first time in a while, I prayed and
devoted time to God. I’m not perfect, and I am not ashamed to admit that. I
know that I haven’t been doing as I should, but in this single moment, I felt
whole.
After having her pray for me, I felt
so right. I had a brighter outlook on my entire day. I texted my parents about
what had just happened because I’m that
girl. This just shows me that no matter what you are doing or where you are,
God is there. I don’t even know how this girl knew what I needed or that I was
having a hard day, but I am so grateful that she did. It is completely true
that the way you carry yourself tells a lot about what kind of person you are.
At the end of our conversation, she told me that I made her day a lot better. That is so funny because she did the
same to me. I think the world needs more Rachel’s—people who aren’t ashamed of
who they are and not afraid to talk to some strange person who is having a
difficult day.
I just thought I would share this amazing
encounter I had this afternoon. I hope everyone has an amazing Monday, and
remember, being open-minded and optimistic can change your outlook on life for
the better.
--Summer Elease Lawrence
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